I’m a 31 year old woman and I’ve just started dating again after a messy breakup. I was with my previous partner for 11 years and that may be why I’m having issues. I have met a guy, I really like him and last week we had our first kiss. I was hoping for fireworks, or at least a spark, but instead it gave me the ick. It wasn’t very good, too wet and sloppy, like kissing an over-excited puppy! I actually made an excuse not to see him this weekend because even though I really like him and fancy him, I really didn’t enjoy kissing him! Is there any hope? Can this be salvaged? Please don’t tell me to talk to him about it -we just don’t know one another well enough yet for that not to be a total relationship-killer.
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